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FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE WE NEGOTIATE WITH INSECURITIES

3/13/2015

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For the sake of love, we give and give. We take away from ourselves. Slowly we change, believing that in order to be loved we must behave a certain way. In the midst of it all, we find ourselves in unknown territory. For the sake of love, we give and we give. Unaware of the smallest details of how we got there, we become someone else and in the process we are lost. 

Here's a little inspiration to get you going from Katy Perry's Love me.
Don't negotiate with your insecurities. Don't allow them get the best of you. Don't second guess yourself. Be the one to define who you're gonna be. Love yourself the way you want to be loved.
I lost myself in fear of losing you
I wish I didn't do
But I did
I lost my own, my own identity
Forgot that you picked me for me

But now, I don't negotiate with insecurities
They always seem to get the best of me
I found I had to love myself, the way I wanted you to love me


No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

Sometimes I wish my skin was a costume
That I could just unzip... and strip
But who I am is who I'm meant to be
And it's who you are in love, in love with

So now, I don't negotiate with insecurities
They're gonna have to take a back seat
I know I have to love myself, the way I want you to love me

No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

No more standing in my own way
Let's go deeper, let's get closer
No more standing in my own way
(I want you to love me)

No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing my feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me
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Princesses BREAK IT DOWN 

3/12/2015

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Check out Sarah Michelle Gellar break it down as Cinderella, slippers and all! A rap battle against Belle from Beauty and the Beast played by Whitney Avalon. 

Your tale as old as time sets us back fifty years 
Do your chores, clean the floors 'til a man just appears... 
You wanna live like Gaston? Please be our guest
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TO BEST SELF OR SELF DESTRUCT?

3/11/2015

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Have you ever woken up feeling tired, both physically and emotionally? You know you’ve been on the same road for far too long. You feel helpless. You’ve accepted things you never should have. You’ve adapted to a world you don’t even belong. You’ve suffered the consequences…greatly. You have one of two options. One, you continue on this self-destructive road your in. Two, you relinquish all negativity and create discipline to be the best you can be.

But choosing to let go of a place you are comfortable in is not easy. You see, when you choose a self-destructive behavior you facilitate yourself. Slowly you crumble like a useless piece of paper. 

You accept negative behaviors from others because you believe you are worthless. You begin to dislike yourself in every way. You lose self-respect, self-confidence, and even become fearful of the things you were never afraid of. So you lock yourself up mentally. You avoid interactions because being vulnerable is the last thing on your mind. But that comfortable place is only temporary because eventually you will not even trust yourself. 

So again, you have one of two options. One, you continue on this self-destructive road your in. Two, you relinquish all negativity and create discipline to be the best you can be. 
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Open the door. Step outside.  Let your fears vanish into the wind. Be the best YOU.
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International Women's Day

3/8/2015

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March 8th is the official International Women's Day. It all began in the 1900's when women just like you began fighting for women’s rights, like voting rights and equal pay, among many other important things. 
This day is used to honor women's advancements and celebrate our achievements. The idea was proposed by a woman named Clara Zetkin. Today, women just like you continue to work to ensure the future of the female culture.
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Let's work together, lead together, help each other, and be kind to one another. Together we can keep reinforcing the female culture across the globe. 
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LIVING IN THE MOMENT

3/5/2015

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We can all mention at least one thing we are all guilty for. Among them is one that sometimes consumes us and while consciously we may be unaware of what we do, we let our lives pass us by because we can't let go. It's hard to say it ourselves, let alone to other people, but it must be reminded. Letting go of our mistakes is the only way we can see our present clearly. Otherwise we are slaves to our past and miss out on the good that may be happening NOW. Whether that good is the smell of a freshly brewed cup of gourmet coffee or a walk to your school campus. Living in the Moment by Jason Mraz helps bring that mood into place. So whenever you're feeling a little stuck, grab your headphones and listen up.
I can't walk through life facing backwards. I have tried; I tried more than once to make sure and I was denied the future I'd been searching for. But I spun around and hurt no more by Living in the moment. Living my life. Easy and breezy...
Wherever I'm going, I'm already home.
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