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New Year’s Resolution: Improve Your Mental Health with These Few Small Changes

1/3/2021

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​​Most people set resolutions at the start of the year, but only a handful are successful after six months. So year after year, we all face this question: how can we make the changes last? Many psychologists and life coaches would tell you to keep your New Year's resolutions realistic. Find out what you realistically can do to hit your goals and how you can break these goals into smaller but more achievable steps.
​Keeping your goals realistic applies to all kinds of New Year's resolutions. Want to lose weight? Hit your target weight by integrating exercise and diet into your everyday life. Start with doing a ten-minute exercise routine every day-that's a smaller yet easier and more achievable action. Want to learn to play a new musical instrument this year? Take that first step of picking a good music school in your area. The same goes for your mental health. 

Start gaining better mental health by sticking to a few small changes.

​Re-evaluate your self-talk
We all have that voice in our heads that constantly nags us about our fears and anxieties. You may not notice it, but this voice shapes your self-identity and affects how you feel about yourself. One tiny but effective step to achieving better mental health this year is to re-evaluate how you talk to yourself.

Like many of us, your self-talk voice is probably negative and critical. After all, it is human nature to be quick to judge yourself and focus on your weaknesses rather than your strengths and potentials. But by being mindful, you can shift your self-talk to a kinder and more compassionate tone. In time, your usual self-talk dialogues like "I'm so stupid" can turn into kinder phrases like "I'm learning and growing."

Practice saying "no"
The coronavirus pandemic has forced us to stay home and practically say "no" to different things. Many of us were able to slow down, pick a hobby, and spend more time with our loved ones at home and virtually. While a pandemic isn't good news, the habit of slowing down and saying "no" benefits your mental health.

Even in the post-pandemic era, you have a right to say no. That includes invitations, requests, and practically anything that you don't have mental space for at the moment. You also don't have to justify your "nos" if you don't want to. Your time and energy are your most precious resources; use them wisely.

Say yes to joy
Once you've learned to say no, you can have more time and energy for activities that can bring you joy. Prioritizing happiness may look different for everyone. It could be as simple as making a cup of coffee in the morning. It could also mean traveling to a new place or watching your favorite TV show with friends.

No matter how you define joy, what matters is that you actively work to cultivate happiness in your life. This can remind you how fun and special life is-that you can be happy on most days, not just only on weekends or holidays. To put it simply, be intentional in infusing more joy into your day, every day.

Don't be shy to ask for help
Another thing that the COVID-19 pandemic has taught us is that we don't have to do it all alone. We may be isolated from our loved ones, but this doesn't mean we can't reach out to them online. This reminds us that we're social creatures-though socially distanced, we are meant to be connected to each other.
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So instead of shouldering everything yourself, ask for help. If you feel down and don't have the energy to run errands, there may be people in your life who would love to lend you a hand when given the chance. And if you're struggling with your mental health and immediate support from loved ones isn't enough, seek out professional help. That's one of the kindest things you can do for your mental health this year.
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2020 was tough for us. As you begin moving through the days of this year, work on improving your mental health. Keep your goals realistic and stick first to a few small changes that can hugely impact your life.

By Iconic Chica mag Contributor
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Carrie Martinez
1/3/2021 11:11:17 pm

I just saw you posted this and I read and let me just say, this is great! You will not believe how many people right now are just confused and without an answer in sight for something that at lease appears to be so simple. It takes practice and years of experience, but this read is good! Thanks!

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Iconic Chica Mag
1/3/2021 11:22:28 pm

Hi Carrie,
Thank you so much for your comment and for reading this article! We are so glad you enjoyed it. There is a lot going on every day and it's so important that we check in with ourselves and stay aware of our needs to be and stay healthy both emotionally and physically. Thank you again for reading.

Here's another read you might enjoy, http://www.iconicchica.com/mental-health/social-media-mental-health-is-there-a-connection

Peace and love,
The IC team

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Jackie
1/4/2021 09:51:21 am

I am obsessed with this read. Can we please get more like this! Our mental health is totally in need of self love and care every day.

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Iconic Chica Mag
1/4/2021 01:25:03 pm

Right?! We love this article too. So happy to hear your thoughts!

Peace and love,
IC Team

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