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5 Proven Ways To Combat Dry Skin

12/27/2018

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Dry skin is a big problem for some people and it’s hard to get around. Often, people end up throwing products at it and sometimes making it worse because they don’t really know what to do. Simply buying a product that says it’s good for dry skin isn’t always enough, you need to change your routine entirely. ​ 

If you’re struggling with dry skin and nothing seems to work,
here are some simple things that you can try.

Exfoliators
When you’ve got dry skin, you’re likely to have a lot of flaking and that can cause you problems when you’re trying to apply makeup etc. and it’ll make your skin look very dull and rough. The first step to improving your skin is clearing all of those dead skin cells away and the best way to do that is with a good exfoliator. Gently scrubbing your face with an exfoliator before you apply any more skin products will give you a good base to work from and make the rest of the products more effective.

Face Masks
Using a daily exfoliator is a good way to manage flaky skin but sometimes, you need something a little more drastic, which is where face masks come in. They’ll be able to clear the skin and strip away those layers of dead skin more effectively than an exfoliator. You shouldn’t use them too regularly because they can be harsh on the skin, once every couple of weeks is fine. You also need to be careful about the ingredients and consider your skin type because some will dry them out more than others. It’s best to buy face mask online because you’ve got more choice and you can find one that works for you. Try to go for more natural ingredients that will be kinder to your skin.

Unscented Skin Products
Anything that has a fragrance to it is bad news for your skin, especially if you’ve got dry skin. The chemicals that are used to create the fragrances are often very harsh on the skin and dry it out even further so, even though you think that you’re doing yourself good by using a moisturizer, you’re actually making the problem worse if it’s a scented one. Always use unscented products if you want to avoid dry skin.

Moisturize Properly
​A lot of people get moisturizer wrong in their skincare routine. First off, you need to choose the right one (unscented and oil based is best for dry skin). Then you need to make sure that you’re applying it properly. Moisturizer is most effective when applied to damp skin rather than dry skin. It absorbs better and locks the moisture in for longer which helps to combat dry skin.

Showering Properly
You could be making your dry skin problem a lot worse if you’re not showering properly. That doesn’t mean not washing often enough, although that is obviously important, it means washing at the right temperature. If you shower in particularly hot water, that’s going to dry your skin out a lot, even if you’re using the right products on it afterwards. It’s always best to just turn the temperature down a little and shower in warm water rather than scolding hot.

These are all proven ways to tackle dry skin but everybody is different so you need to experiment with your skin routine and find one that works for you.

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Share Your Love Of Fashion With Passion

12/21/2018

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If you have a love of fashion, then you might want to be looking to share this with other people. There is a multitude of ways that you can do this, and we are going to talk about them with you in this article. This is not going to be an exhaustive list of options, but it will be a good start to getting you on your way of sharing your love of fashion with the world. So, let’s take a look at some of our little pearls of wisdom.
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Model On Instagram
The first thing that we are going to suggest is that you try modeling on Instagram. This is popular at the moment, and you don’t need a big company to endorse you to do this. Many people think that to model on Instagram you need a company to back you, but this is not the case. You can start out by modeling on your current account, or you can create a separate account for this. Share your fashion, if you are a designer, share your designs. The whole website is going to be able to see your love of fashion, and you never know where this could lead you later in life.

Start A Website
Another thing that you can do is to start a website. A blog is likely going to be the best thing that you can start here, and it is not going to be difficult for you to do. To get yourself started, you might want to think about using the services of someone like Red Rider Creative website design. The more creative your website design is, the more likely people are going to be to click on it, and stay once they are there. People want to see something that is exciting, and this is what you need to be delivering.

Once you have the website up and running, you can start posting about everything that you love about fashion. Post pictures, pieces of writing, you can even run things such as competitions to get people involved.

Get Active On YouTube
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Finally, another thing that you should take into consideration is getting active on YouTube. The popularity of becoming a YouTuber is still pretty high, and many people subscribe to beauty channels. As such, you should consider this option if you are someone who enjoys making videos of the fashion that you love. You can show off all of your designs if you are a designer, and if you just like to wear clothes that you have brought and show people your awesome combinations, this could be the perfect platform for you.

We hope that you have found this advice helpful, and you will use one or more of these tips to share your love of fashion with the world. Remember, you can try more than one option to find that one that is going to work for you, it is not a case of you try one, and you’re stuck with it!

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Valentines Day Mania? Here's How To Get Ahead Of The Madness!

12/20/2018

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It will begin very soon, gently at first with the scattering of paper hearts at stores and in workplaces. Then, social media posts begin- you know the ones with even more love emojis than usual-and finally, the descent into the chaos of Valentine’s will be upon us! Men, women, and children grabbing at cards and boxes of candy like their lives depended on it, people booking up every single table in the city just to say that they took their date out on the 14th February! What if I were to tell you that you could avoid the madness? Well, you can, and all you need to do is follow the guide below.
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Step one - stock up on supplies
First off, one of the most vital things that you will need to survive the Valentine day chaos is supplies. I'm not talking about basics like freshwater and tinned food here, but the even more vital food groups of candy, cake, and chips.
Yes, that right to have a successful February the 14th you will need to get ahead of the game, and stock up on Valentine’s themed candy and the like head of time. Otherwise, you could find yourself wrestling a stranger in a supermarket aisle for the last bag of red, white, and pink M&Ms, which isn't really the best way to start the holiday, is it?

Step two - do something pampering  
The next step in avoiding the madness of Valentine's Day is to cloister yourself away and indulge in some pampering, either at home with a bubble bath, or head to your closest spa.
Then, not only will you feel great and ready to take on this the most romantic of days, but you won't have to put up with the 'how many gifts I got' competition at work either! Phew!

Step three - send yourself flowers
Another way to get ahead of the chaos on February 14th is to remember that is nothing wrong with a little self-care and self-appreciation now and then. In fact, what better way to show how much you value you by sending yourself some Valentine's Day flowers? After all, wouldn't a dozen red roses, or a garden wrap bouquet look just as good in your apartment if you sent them as opposed to a mystery admirer?

Step four - call the people you love most in life and arrange to see them
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Lastly, no matter what if you want to beat the madness of Valentine’s, be sure that you get to hang out with people that you love.

Yes, for some of us this means dating, but for others, it will be getting together with their girlfriends and have a ladies only night. Still, others may prefer to snuggle up on the couch with a beloved pet.

However, no matter what you do, be sure to plan in something that you find nourishing to your soul, and that celebrates love, romantic or otherwise. Lest you feel massacred by the madness Valentine’s Day can bring!

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Five Apps To Save Your Studies

12/17/2018

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When you’re devoting so much of your time to study, anything that can help you get ahead has got to be a welcome addition to your electronic armory.

You don’t have time to find the resources that will help you out, so we’ve done the math for you and come up with five tried and tested apps that are sure to put you firmly in the lead and make studying less of a chore and more of a pleasure:
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Dragon Anywhere
A dictation tool that allows you to speak your thoughts out loud to your phone, which then produces a transcript for you which makes finding that crucial bit of information easier to find later down the line.
Great for creative writers and budding journalists but not free.

MathKey
If you’re looking to convert a math equation from a photo into LaTeX text, then this is the app for you.
Creating maths and science reports becomes a dream as this clever app also converts your handwriting too.

Sleep cycle tracker
You’re going to need this app to keep a track of how much rest and recuperation you’re getting.  Lifestyle gurus everywhere will tell you that if there’s one thing you can do to help yourself reach peak performance, it’s get good quality sleep.
Using your phone’s technology, this app gently wakes you up while you’re in the lightest part of your sleep cycle making it less of a shock to the system.

SimpleMind

This clever little app helps keep all your brainstorming and ideas in one place. It can even draw up Mind Maps and help you to organise your thoughts. This app also allows you to add image to the written text, so if you need reminding about what led to your flash of inspiration a photo from your walk can be uploaded as an aide memoire.

MoviePass
Everyone needs some downtime and as a student you’re probably entitled to cheaper tickets anyway, so make the most of your free evenings and head to the cinema.

Reward yourself with a mid-week treat and snap up two for one offers. You don’t even have to book ahead, just book on the day and you’ll be tucking into popcorn by the evening. With 2-4-1 deals, treat a friend and forget about the books, at least for one evening.

Studying is hard, it can be draining, stressful and frustrating, especially when you feel you’re not organised enough or that things are taking too long. With some of these apps, you’ll be able to plan your study schedule so much better and never forget where your notes are or what inspired that flash of genius in the first place.
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The key to good study is finding some balance in your life, so hit the books hard but don’t neglect to take care of yourself. Get enough sleep and exercise and remember to eat well, taking care of your body as well as your mind will set the course for a brilliant future.

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Timeless Beauty Hacks You May Not Have Considered

12/14/2018

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When it comes to beauty, there are many tips out there, and they seem to be ever-evolving. One minute we’re all putting activated charcoal on our teeth, and the next we’re coating our hair in honey and coconut oil. Before you’ve even put the latest thing on your face, somebody else has logged into Instagram, in a rush to share the next big beauty secret. It can be tiring, and following these things can be all-consuming. Yet there are some timeless hacks that just don’t grow old, and we’ve listed them below. Enjoy!
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Focus on eyes or lips, not both
This tip is especially important if you’re a woman in a rush, but the rule generally applies whether you have the time in your morning routine to spend on your makeup or not. Having bright red lips and combining it with a smoky eye could easily make you look like Ronald McDonald, and that isn’t the look we’re going for here, so decide whether to make your eyes, or lips, the main feature of your face and tailor your look to this. This doesn’t mean that you can’t go for both, but calm down the color of your lips if you’re going all-out on your eyes for a timeless look.

Trust dermatology
There are healthcare professionals out there who have been studying our skin, and how it can retain its youthfulness, for a long time. In the modern age, many are quick to go head-first into invasive forms of surgery to make themselves more beautiful, but there are non-surgical cosmetic dermatology treatment options out there if you’re not looking to make such a big commitment. This includes facials and chemical peels, and they will bring back the feel of youthfulness without the scary surgical implications.

Remove your makeup before you sleep
This one is also an oldie, but undoubtedly a goodie. Sleeping with your makeup on is bad no matter what your skin type is, and it can cause acne as your skin will be unable to breathe underneath your makeup. Leaving your mascara on can cause eye infections, so don’t be careless with eye makeup, either. Though we all have days when we just can’t be bothered to remove it (after one too many cocktails, for example), it is important to stay on top of this if you want to have fresh and clear skin, and no acne or eye infections.
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So, there are many beauty hacks out there, but there are timeless classics that simply do not grow old. When it comes to makeup, make sure that you focus on either your eyes or your lips, as you don’t want your face to have too many focal points, to the point where it is simply too much. You can also look into dermatology treatments, and follow that timeless rule: remove your makeup before you catch those Zzzs! Sometimes, new trends just can’t beat the old ones, so try the classics, and see your skin at its best!

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Subtle Ways To Reveal To The World You're A Rock Chick At Heart

12/13/2018

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The cool and inner rock chic has her own style and we love her for it. Sometimes, just like any other look, the world can be judgemental.  We don't understand that at all since it's the age of equality and we are so over the judgements. Some say women and rock music are rarely found together in popular culture, although millions of us gals love the music.
The question many females have is how do you reveal you're a rock 
chick at heart in a way that won’t generate puzzled looks from the people around them. Take a look at some of these ideas and toss them, embrace them, adapt them... but remember you are perfect just the way you are and fitting in to a society is not something you need to do. Be who you are and embrace your uniqueness.
 Stack Jewelry The groupies of old were rarely modest with their choice of jewelry. Instead, they stacked it up wherever they could, on their hands, wrists, necks, and ears. It wasn’t uncommon for women to have multiple studs of different colors circling their earlobes like a giant wheel.

Today, jewelry choices are far more modest than back in the heydey of rock n’ roll. But that doesn’t mean that the two styles can’t find some common ground. Today’s rock chicks eschew some of the brighter colors but stick to stacking - the practice of layering many items of jewelry on top of one another. Choose neutral colors, like silver and gold, and then layer them up, be they ear studs, rings, necklaces or bracelets.

Subtly Betray Your Taste In Music With Sweaters With the holiday season just around the corner, many women are taking the opportunity to construct their holiday wardrobes. But there’s a problem: holiday clothing has almost nothing to do with rock music. Or does it?
The Grateful Dead - an iconic rock band that emerged in San Francisco in the 1960s - used dancing bears as their logo. Grateful Dead Christmas sweaters featuring these bears look positively festive, though only a few dedicated rock fans will recognise their true significance.
Want to wear a Christmas sweater with pride this year? Get a rock-themed one.


Skinny Pants The good news for rock chicks is that skinny pants - the kind worn by rock legends over the years - are in fashion right now. Go with black, of course, and pair them with little black high-heeled boots. Sure, it’s subtle, but at least you won’t be betraying your roots.

Cat Eye Makeup Punk rockers took to eye makeup like bees take to nectar. They wore it all the time, and you should too. Grab an eyeliner pencil and apply to both the upper and lower lids. Add a bit of eyeshadow and mascara, and then the final flourish - the cat line out of the side of the eye. You’ll look edgy and moody, and, to some, a throwback to a better era.

Be More Boho Many rock chicks think that the only way to avoid looking like everybody else is to wear ripped jeans and t-shirts with Kurt Cobain’s face on them. But there are other ways of signaling to the world that you might be a little alternative.

Boho dresses, for instance, aren’t out of place at a party but suggest that you have a different, hippy-chic vibe. Go for dresses with interesting and unusual patterns and colors that wouldn’t make it into the mainstream.

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Christmas Gift Ideas For Babies

12/11/2018

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It is not surprising that Christmas is thought of as the most special day of the year for most people. It provides a time where everybody comes together, they appreciate what they have got, they laugh together, they exchange presents and they eat scrumptious food. For those with children, Christmas can be very special and magical. There is quite simply nothing better than seeing the smile on a child’s face as they open their presents on Christmas day.
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Making Christmas a special occasion all starts from a child’s very first Christmas day. Even when one is a baby it is important to make Christmas feel special and create precious and touching memories which they can look back on when they are older and cherish. They are not the only ones who will hold these memories closely, the parents obviously will too.

As babies are too young to immediately understand the concept of Christmas it is advisable to buy them presents which are not only fun and exciting but to also get something which they can keep with them for the rest of their lives. This means something which represents their childhood and is a tangible memory to hold on to forever. Of course, this is something which will not immediately be appreciated by the baby, but once the child gets older and they realise the significance of the gift it is something which will be ever so precious.

Nevertheless, deciding on what present to buy is a lot easier said than done. There are so many different choices available in stores all over the UK and off of the internet today. However ensuring that the one bought is suitable and perfect is difficult as there is a lot to think about before making a final purchase. This blog post aims to give a helping hand by revealing some of the best baby Christmas gift ideas which have a special meaning or significance to them.
A lot of people remember the first teddy bear they have. In fact it tends to be something that they keep with them for a huge proportion of their lives. A child’s first cuddly toy is something which provides them with comfort, sometimes it can be seen as a friend and a confidant. Therefore this makes a lovely gift idea for those looking to buy something special for their baby. Head to teddybearland.co.uk/baby for some inspiration. One can opt to go for the obvious and buy a teddy bear, however if one is seeking something different then why not go for a rag doll.
You could even make a special toy or gift for your child. Head to vinylcuttingmachineguide.com for some helpful information on the different sorts of machines you may need. This is a special sort of present that will be cherished for your child’s life.

Another great idea which is something that will be appreciated later in life is to buy a jewellery piece and keep it until the child grows old enough to understand the significance. A lot of parents buy a beautiful bracelet or necklace for their little baby on their first Christmas and then they present them with it when they believe the time is right and they explain that this was given to them on their first Christmas and that they should cherish it.

These Christmas gift ideas are assured to be something precious and touching.

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Individualize Your Style from Top to Toe

12/10/2018

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When you step out of the house you always want to look and feel your best. Whether you’re meeting up with your friends, heading to a work event or just having some you time browsing around the shops, your personal style is very important to you. You are always trying to find ways to shake up your individual style and feel glamorous from head to toe. Being an individual is very important to you so when you’re trying to choose the perfect nightclub dress you always want to look show stopping, no matter what the occasion may be.

Here are a few helpful ideas that might just help you to individualize your style and stand out from the trend following crowds.
How to Accessorize Awesomely
The accessories you choose can really help to show your individual likes and dislikes, whether you’re a fan of oversized hats or you love chunky knit scarves. Everyone should always have a signature accessory to make them stand out from the crowd. Another way to make a huge statement is by investing in an array of lapel pins to match your various outfits; with these you can change them up every time you change your ensemble.

Be Smart With Shoes
The shoes you wear need to be comfortable and in keeping with your personality. Don’t force yourself to wear heels if you don’t feel at ease wearing them; opt for trainers or flats instead if that suits your personal style more. Everyone deserve to have that go to pair of shoes that make them feel like a rock star. As soon as you have found those stand out shoes you will be able to step outside every day feeling on top of the world.

From Basic to Brilliant
If you have a simple outfit that makes you feel confident, then why not stick to it? You can change it up by adding different jewellery designs to it each time. From a bold statement necklace to a pair of dangly earrings, you can transform an outfit from basic to brilliant using just a couple of key jewellery items.

Makeup Will Complete the Outfit​
Choose makeup trends that suit your eye color and your outfit will be unstoppable. If you have brown eyes, you are lucky that most shades will suit you; opt for plums, dark green and grey for the ultimate finishing touch for your makeup. Make sure you always feel comfortable with your makeup choices and don’t be afraid to try something completely new.

You never want to conform to the so called ‘normal’ fashion trends of society, so don’t be afraid to embrace your individuality at all times. The clothes you wear can have a huge impact on your emotions and feelings, so allow yourself to feel confident every single day. When you step out of the house feeling on top of the world, you know that nobody will be able to hold you back from doing your awesome thing. Enjoy your personal style and don’t be afraid to show the world what you’re all about.

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How To Learn Multiple Things In A Year Without Burning Out

12/6/2018

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There are many different reasons that you could need or want to learn multiple things simultaneously , such as studying for a degree that covers a few different areas, you could be building a business from scratch when you’ve never done it before and need to learn all the different things that go into that such as sales, marketing, technology and admin, etc.

Or you could really just be an information and development junkie, which is actually a great thing because this is when you have the most passion for the things you’re learning.

However, if you’re not careful, this can become very overwhelming and can lead to burn out if you try to take on too many different things at once that pull your focus in multiple
directions. 

When you get organized through using effective time management and planning, then it’s absolutely possible to learn everything you want or need to in a year without burning out.

In this post, we’re going to share with you some tips on exactly how to do this through.
Make a list:
The first step in tackling different things at once is to make a list of everything that you want or need to learn in the next year. This could be different subjects completely or it could be categories and sub tasks within a certain area of focus. For example, let’s say you really want to focus on mastering marketing over the next 12 months, then you would make a list of all the different things you’d need to learn about this, such as blogging, social media, webinars, and anything else you’d feel like should be included in that.

Create a 12-month learning calendar:

Once you’ve got your list together, it might seem pretty overwhelming at first, but when you spread everything out over 12 months you’ll see that it’s really not as crazy as you think. To put together your 12-month learning calendar, you can either use a physical calendar or a digital one such as Google calendar. We recommend having this calendar separate from your main one if using Google, and then linking the events for each thing you’re learning through to your main calendar.

Here’s exactly how to do this:
Step 1: Open Google calendar and set it to a monthly view. Look at your list you’ve already created and then choose one topic or subject to add in to each month based on the order you think you should they should go in.
Step 2: Now that you have your topics allocated to a month within your calendar, you’re going to add in some sub-tasks that will enhance your learning of these topics. That could be things like attending a webinar, studying a course, reading a book or blog.
Step 3: Once you have your what and how added to your calendar, you’re going to decide how much time you have available each day to allocate to your learning and then schedule this in to your calendar.

Batch & Block:
Task batching and time blocking are amazing time management and productivity hacks that will really change your life if you start implementing them. This is especially true you need to switch your focus between multiple areas with a limited amount of time, so here we’re going to show you how it works.

Batching works by taking a list of tasks that are similar that you have to do on a regular basis and grouping them together into a selected time slot. For example, for your learning calendar will incorporate different areas that bring your learning together such as research, writing, and editing. Based on what you feel works for you and when you’re able to be most focused and most productive you’ll design your time schedule accordingly. Maybe you feel more alert first thing in the morning, so this could be a good time to schedule all your reading or research because this is when you tend to retain information best.

Batching allows you to be more productive because you can be fully focused on one area for this batched time slot and then work through it before moving on to the next things.

Time blocking works alongside batching and also keeps you focused by allocating a specific amount of time to each batched group. So, you could set aside 1 hour in the morning to work on your writing or reading and then an extra 30 minutes in the evening to work on another group of tasks such as research or editing.

Set a timer:
Once you have all your tasks laid out in your calendar and everything is batched and blocked out, then it’s time to get to work and stay focused. One of the best ways to do this is by using a timer to work against. You’ll be surprised by how much you can get done in as little as 20-30 minutes simply because you’re staying focused on the task at hand and not allowing anything to distract you.
Once your timer is up, then it’s a good idea to take a 5-10 minute break before moving on to the next task. This is not only good for helping you stay productive and focused, but it gives your brain some time to recoup from the focused work time and come up with new energy and ideas.

Also it’s good to take some time away from the computer because of things like headaches and migraines which can come from too much screen time and not enough breaks, and if you do feel like this is something that’s starting to affect you, then you can find out more about how to take the steps to prevent this from happening or how it can be treated if you’re already suffering from strain-induced headaches or any other issues that may come from using the computer too much and not scheduling yourself enough breaks.

Hopefully this post has shown you how simple it can be to get a lot of stuff done within a year so that you don’t burn out or overwhelm yourself too much.

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Spending Christmas As A Couple For The First Time - A Loving Guide

12/4/2018

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The first year of any relationship is often one of the most memorable and wonderful. We’re absolutely not suggesting ‘it’s all downhill from here,’ as those dripping with cynicism might have you believe. However, the first is always the freshest, and so it can be wonderful to make this first Christmas as a couple one for the ages. If you haven’t noticed, this year has been flying by very quickly, and Christmas is no different. At the time of this writing, we are just under one month away from Christmas 2018. This year has had its ups and downs, but there’s no reason why it can’t be capped off in the most beautiful manner possible.

To focus on the love and joy of the season, here are some tips that may help.

Financing & Gifts
Of course, while many might say that gifts shouldn’t matter (and this is true,) it’s likely that you’re going to want to spend Christmas with your other half and impress them with your gift. It could be that you hope to review this good article to help you finance an amazing gift, or potentially craft something yourself. Your other half might drop hints in advance, or you might have written something near the start of the relationship that you just know will make the perfect gift. You don’t need to gift them something absolutely crazy, or something that ties you together such as a new vehicle. But, something loving, something that shows you’ve thought of them, and something that you can enjoy together can often work wonders. It might be you decide to purchase jewelry, or nice clothing, or tickets to an event can work the best here.

We’d also recommend, it’s in your price range of course, purchasing an experience. It might be that heading abroad with someone you love could truly give you that deep sense of connection and adventure, and we all know that adventure is the best thing we can be given.
Spending Time Abroad
It might be that heading on vacation, no matter how humble, could be the most beautiful choice you make this Christmas period. You might decide to rent a humble cabin in Norway, and spend a couple of weeks exploring the towns, perhaps going skiing, or generally connecting to those around you with love in your heart. You might decide to head to Disneyland as adults who are on the verge of connecting with their childhood again, or potentially visit the homeland of one of your countries of origin. Spending time abroad connects you with your companion, and this is especially true when that person is someone you care for deeply. Christmas, on top of this, also has that pure love, that love distinct from simple romantic love. At this time of year, sitting in a comfortable cafe sharing hot chocolate with your loved one can be just as intimate as cuddling in the hotel room. Christmas has that power, especially when sharing those smiles with those you meet.
Spending Significant Time With Their Family
This can be a worrying one, particularly if you haven’t spent much time with their family in the past. However, if you are on kind speaking terms, it might mean a lot to your other half and their family if you accept an invitation to spend Christmas with them. You might decide to get a nearby hotel, because staying at a boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s parents house within your first year together might be considered slightly awkward, especially if you’re sharing the bed of the room they grew up in. You can plan this event how you feel comfortable, and if your other half is considerate, they should support you.However, this can be a great time to get to know their family, to help out with dinner, to relax with them and to maybe drink a bottle of wine or two indulgently. This can also serve as an instructive period, where you learn that perhaps his uncle is a little off, or that he comes from a very strange family home. However, it can also help you connect with an extra family, potentially receive a blessing from his parents in the form of an unspoken approval, but most importantly potentially help you all have a wonderful Christmas. All we’re suggesting is that you don’t rule it out. If this doesn’t sound worthwhile to you, perhaps inviting them to your family home could be worthwhile, or putting that off until the next year. After all, there’s no hard and fast rule that says you need to be this intimate with their family right now, no matter the holiday.
Thoughtful Activities
Thoughtful activities can bring you together like nothing else. It might be you arrange a trip for them for the weekend, or craft a treasure hunt around the house with small romantic notes, or book you both a wonderful Christmas dinner, or even tickets to a wonderful theatre show. Thoughtful activities and surprises are the crux of Christmas, even if it comes in the form of a novelty knitted jumper with your facial likeness on. A little silly forethought, the willingness to spend time together, and a little heartfelt emotional expression can go a long way to make this Christmas the best one yet. Who knows? This might be the time you actually say those three cherished words.

Go Through Tradition
The first Christmas together can be a very cutesy time if you follow tradition. Waking up to presents and filled stockings you have given one another, relaxing on the sofa, eating Christmas lunch together, playing video games, being goofy and perhaps drinking a little too much wine sounds like a wonderful Christmas to us, no matter who you are. We couldn’t blame you for jumping into this saccharine flow of events. It’s exactly what the first year of a relationship warrants.
With these simple tips, spending Christmas as a couple for the first time is sure to be something you share and cherish.

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How to Spot the Patterns of Dependency In a Relationship

12/4/2018

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There are healthy relationships and those that keep us up at night. No matter if you have a friend who is trying to take over your life, rule your day, or force their advice on you, or a partner who is possessive, it might be time to think clearly, and make a move to improve or break up the dependent relationship. It's not always easy to find the signs of dependency in a relationship, so here are some tips and advice.
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Take a Break
If you want to know whether or not you are depending on your partner too much, the best approach is to take a break. Go on a trip on your own and see how many times you are thinking about whether or not they are OK on their own, or about needing someone to reassure you that you are doing the right thing. In friendships, you might notice signs of dependency if you only have the same friends and cannot find interests on your own.
Look Out for Jealousy
Another sign of an unhealthy relationship is jealousy. If you keep on thinking about losing the other person, or they accuse you of cheating regularly, there is a chance that they are insecure and they will never let you go. This is why you will need to make it clear in the beginning of the relationship that you are an individual and not an extension of the other person.
Build Reciprocity
If there is one smart relationship advice people might want to hear before they start pursuing romantic interests is that every partnership is built on reciprocity. You will need to give and take the equal amount. Whether you are the person who takes care of the house and the other one arranges trips and holidays, you both need to feel respected and supported. You can check out this program to find more ways of connecting without becoming dependent on the other person.
Turn Off Your Phone
It is also a good idea to turn off your phone every now and then and stop being available to the other person 24 hours a day. If you start this in the beginning, you will make it clear that you need your space and you are willing to give them theirs. You can stop dependency and clingy behavior if you lay the rules as soon as possible.
Be Yourself ​
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A good relationship means that you are allowed to do what you enjoy without being blamed or criticized by the other person. This means that you have to develop a level of independence, so you can separate yourself from the other person. Just because you don’t have the exact same interests, you can still respect each other in a relationship.
It is not always easy to spot the signs of dependency in a relationship. Look out for the telltale signs and make sure you are both able to function without each other and respect each other’s values. ​​

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