This guide will help you!
Create An Alter Ego
If you know anything about Beyonce, you’ll know that she has an alter ego. Years ago, she created the alter ego ‘Sasha Fierce’, so that she could really exude confidence while she performed on stage. She said that she channeled Sasha to help her feel amazing while she did her thing. If it helps you, you can do this too. Ask yourself, what would your alter ego do? It’s basically faking it until you make it!
Love Yourself Now
Instead of thinking you’ll love yourself later on, love yourself now. People say all kinds of things. They’ll be happy when they have a boyfriend. They’ll be happy when they’ve lost 10 pounds. They’ll be happy when they have longer hair. Don’t do the same! Why delay your happiness when you can love yourself right now, regardless of the way you look? When you do this, everything else will seem to fall into place. This isn’t to say that the way you look isn’t important. If something is bothering you, then by all means, do something about it. But don’t let it stop you from being happy. You can look here for ideas.
Don’t APOLOGIZE For Who You Are
Beyonce wears some risky things on the red carpet and on stage. But does she feel the need to explain herself? Does she look self conscious? No! She rocks it, because that’s who she is. Never apologise for who you are. As long as you’re being true to yourself, your real life will start and you’ll have amazing confidence.
Big Yourself Up
People seem to be so afraid of admitting that they even like themselves, let alone love themselves! Some people have self hatred down to a fine art. They talk badly about themselves in their head, and to others. They compare themselves to others and just don’t feel like they are enough. Stop! The more you repeat something, no matter how you do it, the more you actually start to believe it.